Better Golf, Better Life
By Dan Miller
CBN.com – Heres a note I received from reader Michael McClure, from Burlington Ontario, Canada. Thanks to Michael for his permission to pass this along and for the best example of we get what we expect that Ive heard in a long time.
Can I tell you a quick story?
Years ago I was playing golf and wondered why each time I had to shoot over water my ball would head straight for it and take the plunge. It would happen over and over again. I would approach the tee, notice the water, reach into my bag and grab the grubbiest ball I could find, tee up, and launch it into the lake. Then one day, while waiting for a partner to tee off, I was examining the ball I had chosen and noticed it was in pretty good shape. I wasn't sure I wanted to lose such a good one, so I looked for one a bit more beaten up. Then it dawned on me: why am I setting myself up to lose this ball? Why am I planning to fail?
Why am I focusing so much on the water and not on the fairway on the other side? And that was the day I pulled out my very best ball. I chose the cleanest, newest, and most expensive ball I could find. That decision changed my mindset, as well as my posture, and I shot par. I've been using my best ball on every hole since that day and, while I'm no Tiger Woods, my game has improved. But what improved most was the way I felt during the game. The changed mindset. Looking past the obstacles, I felt confident, more expectant, and enjoyed the day like never before.
It was a simple lesson I learned and I find it translates well in many areas of life. It was one of your callers that reminded me of this event. The caller was wondering why he was afraid to succeed and tended to sabotage his own efforts. It might be the fear of change or it might be a fear of what it might do to a comfortable way of life.
Thank you so much for your program. I'm a new listener (listening via podcast in Canada) and heard about you on the Dave Ramsey show. Howard Dayton and Steve Moore from Crown Financial also mentioned your name, so I had to find out more. I trust all these men very much and I'm very grateful to you for your program and your many other excellent services that I'm just now learning about.
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Thanks for the variety of interesting questions you are submitting each week. As you know, I then scan through and answer as many as possible in each weeks 48-Minute podcast. If you could please keep your questions to about 50 words they are much more likely to make it into the lineup!
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Guarantees or Opportunities?
I read a Herman Group Report this morning regarding the disconnect between employers and employees. It indicated that employees want life/work balance programs, providing comprehensive benefits, appropriate financial compensation, and secure work environment fostering creativity and participation.
The report goes on to say that the new young worker of today is self-reliant, highly confident, and seeks personal and professional development. Professionally, nearly every worker surveyed preferred jobs allowing them to think creatively (96 percent) and requiring an innovative approach to tasks (91 percent). Personally, employees say the most attractive workplaces are those that help meet family obligations through flex-time, job sharing, telecommuting, and other life/work balance programs.
Now wait a minute. Its not surprising that this is presented as a disconnect. If you want guaranteed benefits, locked in pay, and security, then be prepared to give up creativity, innovation, flex-time, and life/work balance. Just show up, do whats expected of you, get your paycheck, and go home.
On the other hand, if youre willing to provide input for increasing revenue, youd like to be able to go to your sons tournament game on Friday afternoon, and you have better ideas for completing the work, then be prepared to share in the results produced good or bad. Youve just taken the ceiling off what you can expect to receive.
Realize that any time you require a guarantee, you give up opportunity. You cant have both.
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Humor: Where Are We Going?
Two young men who had just graduated from Harvard were all excited and bragging about themselves as they got into a taxi in downtown Boston.
After hearing them for a couple of minutes the cab driver asked, "You men Harvard graduates?"
"Yes, Sir! Class of '07!" they answered proudly.
The cab driver extended his hand back to shake their hand, saying, "Good to meet some fellow alumni. Class of '98."
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Have you found your opportunity?
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Dan Miller is the bestselling author of 48 Days To The Work You Love and a renowned Life Coach specializing in career fulfillment. His weekly newsletter reaches 70,000 subscribers. Dan’s articles are featured here at CBN every Tuesday, and you can find out more about Dan at www.48days.com.
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