A man I'll call Ted knows what it's like to go to hell and
back. Ted is middle-aged and well-respected in his community
and his profession. But one day Ted discovered the Internet
and, soon thereafter, Internet pornography.
Within six months, it was completely controlling Ted's life.
As he puts it, his mind had "become a garbage can."
What makes this story especially noteworthy is that Ted is
also an evangelical Christian -- as respected in his church
as he is in his community. But he isn't alone; his problem is
shared by a growing number of Christian men.
For the past few days, I've told you about how cultural and
technological factors have taken pornography from the margins
of society to the mainstream. This, sadly, includes the church.
A recent survey conducted by the National Coalition for the
Protection of Children and Families provides us with a clue
as to how big the problem of Christians and pornography may
be.
The Coalition surveyed students at five Christian colleges.
Sixty-eight percent of the male students said that they had
intentionally looked for pornography on the Internet -- more
than two-thirds of them! Ten percent of those surveyed admitted
to frequent use of pornography, and five percent acknowledged
having a problem with pornography. Like any poll, these numbers
understate the incidence of actual use.
Another Christian college, Seattle Pacific University, examined
all the web sites accessed by its students during a three-week
period. Officials were dismayed to learn that nearly seven percent
of all sites visited were pornographic. And, one in five of
all campus computers had been used to view pornography. In response,
officials installed blocking software that kept students from
accessing pornography on campus computers. But, we need to understand
that this is not an isolated problem -- it's happening all over.
Technology alone will not solve the problem, because there's
no blocking software for the human heart. That's why, as Steve
Watters of Focus on the Family wrote in a recent issue of Boundless
web magazine, Christian colleges across the country are creating
programs to deal with the problem: "special chapels, accountability
groups and innovative dorm programs."
Why are Christian men so vulnerable to Internet pornography?
Barbara Steffens, of the Coalition, points to several possible
factors. There's the technology. Temptation is only a few clicks
away. The Internet has brought the red light district into every
American home. As a result, there's very little standing between
a man and his worst impulses.
But it's not just technology. Steffens adds that few churches
are prepared for the challenges posed by Internet pornography.
People aren't comfortable talking about their struggles with
sexual temptation at church for fear of being judged. Even if
they are prepared to talk, there's often no one to hold them
accountable in a meaningful way.
The church has got to find a way to confront this challenge.
An entire generation of Christian men is at risk of experiencing
the hell that Ted did. If you or someone you know struggles
with this problem, visit our web site at http://www.christianity.com/partner/Article_Display_Page/www.BreakPoint.org
for helpful resources.
Ted eventually got help and is now helping others to understand
that, by the grace of God and the help of our brothers, we can
empty that garbage can.
For further reference: "Christian
College Students and Pornography: The Facts." National Coalition
for the Protection of Children and Families, December 2000.
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