What can I do to make myself worthy of marriage? Why do people spend their entire life "making memories."? What are we here for? If I give my tithes and offerings to God first would it be against biblical standard to play the lottery ...
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ALL RIGHT, WE'RE GOING TO
JUMP RIGHT IN WITH HOLLY WHO
SAYS, "I'M A CHRISTIAN, AND
FOR THREE YEARS I WAS A LADY
TRUCK DRIVER.
I WANTED TO BECOME AN OWNER
-OPERATOR AND JUST WORKED
SHORT HAULS, BUT LAST YEAR I
WAS INVOLVED IN A ACCIDENT
THAT EVENTUALLY LED ME TO
HAVE MY COMMERCIAL LICENSE
SUSPENDED, AND ON TOP OF
THAT, MY EMPLOYER STOLE A
LOT OF MONEY FROM ME.
MY DESIRE IS TO BE MARRIED,
I'M 44, AND I'M HAVING TO
RESTART MY LIFE OVER.
NOW I FEEL LIKE I HAVE
NOTHING TO OFFER A MAN OR
MARRIAGE."
I'M JUST GOING TO START WITH
THAT.
Pat: YOU DON'T HAVE TO
COME TO A MARRIAGE WITH A
BUNCH OF MONEY OR 10
TRUCKS.
YOU SAY WHAT HAVE I GOT TO
OFFER?
YOU'RE CREATIVE.
YOU'RE AN ENTREPRENEUR.
YOU'RE DYNAMIC.
YOU'VE BEEN ABLE TO MAKE
YOUR OWN WAY IN LIFE.
IF YOU CAN HANDLE A BIG RIG
ON THE ROAD, THE PROBLEM IS
WHAT YOU MAY OFFER YOUR MAN
IS SO MUCH GREATER THAN WHAT
HE CAN OFFER YOU HE'LL BE
PUT IN THE SHADE.
BUT IF YOU CAN KIND OF CHILL
DOWN A LITTLE BIT SOME OF
YOUR ABILITIES.
IT ISN'T THAT YOU LACK
ABILITY -- YOU'VE GOT SO
MANY OF THEM.
JUST KNOW YOU'RE A PRIZE.
KEEP THAT IN MIND AND JUST
LOOK FOR SOMEBODY WHO IS
LOOKING FOR A PRIZE AND
YOU'RE IT.
Kristi: GOOD WORD.
CHRIS WRITES, "MY FRIEND AND
I WERE TALKING THE OTHER DAY
ABOUT LIFE AFTER DEATH.
HE SAID SOMETHING THAT
SCARED ME.
HE SAID WHEN YOU DIE, YOU
LOSE ALL OF YOUR MEMORY.
I'VE BEEN THINKING ABOUT
WHAT HE SAID AND WONDERING
IF HE IS RIGHT."
Pat: NO, HE IS NOT
RIGHT.
THE REASON HE IS NOT RIGHT
IS BECAUSE JESUS HIMSELF
GAVE A PARABLE ABOUT TWO
PEOPLE THAT DIED.
ONE WAS A BEGGER, AND ONE
WAS A RICH MAN.
ANGELS CARRIED THE BEGGER TO
THE BOSOM, AND THE RICH MAN
DIED AND WENT TO HELL.
HE LOOKED UP AND SAW THE
POOR MAN.
HE RECOGNIZED ABRAHAM, HE
RECOGNIZED THE POOR MAN, AND
HE SAID PLEASE SEND LAZARUS
TO TOUCH MY TONGUE WITH A
DROP OF WATER.
I'M DYING AND PERISHING IN
THESE FLAMES.
HE KNEW HE WAS.
HE KNEW HE LAZARUS WAS.
AND HE KNEW WHO ABRAHAM
WAS.
NO, YOU DON'T LOSE
CONSCIOUSNESS.
THERE ISN'T A BLANK.
YOU TAKE WHAT YOU'VE GOT
HERE ON INTO ETERNITY WITH
YOU.
SOME OF IT YOU LEAVE.
SOME OF THE NASTY STUFF YOU
LEAVE BEHIND, THANK
GOODNESS.
Kristi: JOE SAYS, "IF I
GIVE MY TITHES AND OFFERINGS
TO GOD FIRST, WOULD IT BE
AGAINST BIBLICAL STANDARD TO
PLAY THE LOTTERY?"
[LAUGHTER]
Pat: I'VE GOT THESE
NUMBERS --
Kristi: DO YOU KNOW HOW
MANY PEOPLE ARE PLAYING THE
NUMBERS IN THE NAME OF
JESUS?
Pat: BROTHER, BROTHER,
BROTHER.
WHEN I WAS IN LAW SCHOOL, I
REALLY WASN'T A CHRISTIAN,
AND I WOULD BE PLAYING HIGH
STAKES POKER, AND YOU'D BE
PRAYING, OH, LORD, LET ME
HAVE A 10.
AMEN.
HALLELUJAH.
LISTEN, THE QUESTION ABOUT
GAMBLING IS VERY SIMPLE: ARE
WE TESTING GOD OR OR WE JUST
PLAYING?
I DON'T THINK THERE IS
ANYTHING WRONG WITH
PLAYING.
GAMBLING PER SE ISN'T A
SIN.
IF YOU GET A TICKET ON A
LOTTERY -- BUT, ON THE OTHER
HAND, IF YOU'RE BASING YOUR
HOPES AND DREAMS ON HITTING
THE LOTTERY, AND IF YOU SEE
THE STORIES, ALMOST WITHOUT
EXCEPTION PEOPLE WHO WON THE
LOTTERY FIND IT A CURSE
RATHER THAN A BLESSING.
JUST LIVES WRECKED BECAUSE
OF IT.
SO DO WHAT GOD TELLS YOU TO
DO, BUT GOD IS A WHOLE LOT
MORE GRACIOUS THAN WE
REALIZE.
Kristi: I THOUGHT WE
HAD TIME FOR ONE MORE, BUT
WE DON'T.
SO LET'S JUST TALK AND
CHAT.
HOW IS LIFE?
Pat: LIFE'S GREAT, BUT
I DIDN'T WIN THE LOTTERY.
Kristi: I HAVE TO ADMIT
SOMETIMES I SEE THE JACKPOTS
OF $300 MILLION.
Pat: IT BREAKS MY
HEART.
I WOULD STOP AT A
CONVENIENCE STORE TO GET
GAS, AND I WOULD SEE THIS
HARD-WORKING PEOPLE LAY
THEIR MONEY, $5, $10, TO GET
A TICKETS, AND THE ODDS ARE
SO ASTRONOMICALLY AGAINST
THEM.
TOMORROW, HEAR HOW YOU CAN
CLEAN YOUR HOUSE FOR JUST
PENNIES.
AND WE LEAVE YOU WITH THESE
WORDS FROM MATTHEW: "SEEK
FIRST HIS KINGDOM AND HIS
RIGHTEOUSNESS, THAT ALL
THESE THINGS WILL BE GIVEN
TO YOU AS WELL."
SEE YOU TOMORROW.
BYE-BYE.
Kristi: GOOD!