Pastor Mark Driscoll shares about our nation's current identity crisis in his new book "Who Do You Think You Are?"
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Gordon: IT'S A QUESTION
THAT HAS PLAGUED MAIN KIND.
WHEN YOU KNOW WHO YOU
ARE, THEN YOU NO WHAT TO
DO.
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TRUTH OF WHO YOU ARE ON
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[LAUGHTER]
HI, I'M HOLLY.
JOSHUA.
I'M A LAWYER.
I'M IN THE FASHION
INDUSTRY.
I WORK IN A LAW FIRM.
I WORK IN COMMERCIAL REAL
ESTATE.
I'M A PROFESSIONAL.
I DO E-MAILS AND CLIENT
CALLS.
A TYPICAL DAY IS WAKING
UP NEXT TO MY WIFE.
I CAN'T GET HER OUT OF MY
HEAD.
I'M THE TALLEST PERSON IN
MY FAMILY.
I LIKE TO READ COMIC
BOOKS.
I LIKE TATTOOS.
WHO DO YOU THINK YOU
ARE.
Gordon: JOINING US VIA
SKYPE IS PASTOR AND
BEST-SELLING AUTHOR MARK
DRISCOLL.
GOOD MORNING.
IT IS A PLEASURE TO BE WITH
YOU.
Gordon: IN YOUR BOOK,
YOU WRITE ABOUT AMERICANS
HAVING A REAL IDENTITY
CRISIS.
WHAT DO YOU MEAN BY THAT?
A LOT OF PEOPLE DON'T
KNOW WHO THEY ARE IN
CHRIST.
A LOT OF TIME, IN THIS AGE
OF SOCIAL MEDIA, IS SPENT
CREATING AN IDENTITY, TO
BANDS WE LIKE TO PEOPLE WE
FOLLOW TO TRENDS WE COMMENT
ON.
I THINK THE RESULT IS WE
HAVE FORGOTTEN WHO WE ARE IN
CHRIST.
AND THE THINGS THAT SHOULD
MERELY EXPLAIN US START TO
DEFINE US.
THAT CAN BE BE YOUR WEIGHT.
YOUR G.P.A., HOW PEOPLE
RESPOND TO YOU.
IT CAN BE JO YOUR JOB, YOUR
SPOUSE, YOUR KIDS.
SOMETIMES THE THINGS IN OUR
LIFE, RATHER THAN JESUS,
STARTS TO DEFINE WHO WE
ARE.
Gordon: A LOT OF WHAT
WE'RE PUTTING UP ON SOCIAL
MEDIA IS ACTUALLY A MASK.
IT IS NOT EVEN A REAL
PERSONA.
IT IS WHAT WE WANT PEOPLE TO
THINK WE ARE.
ARE WE CREATING, IN THIS
PROCESS, IDOLS OUT OF OUR
OWN LIVES?
I THINK WE ABSOLUTELY
ARE.
AN IDOL IS WHEN YOU TAKE A
GOOD THING AND MAKE IT A GOD
THING, WHICH IS A BAD
THING.
WHAT I ALWAYS SAY IS IF
JESUS DEFINES WHO YOU ARE,
THEN YOUR IDENTITY IS
SECURE.
AND YOU CAN BE HONEST ABOUT
YOUR FAILURES AND YOUR
STRUGGLES AND YOUR HURTS AND
YOUR NEEDS.
AND YOU CAN INVITE PEOPLE IN
TO KNOW THE REAL YOU.
BUT IF YOU'VE MADE YOUR
IDENTITY INTO YOUR IDOL
IDOLATRY, THEN ALL OF A
SUDDEN YOUR LIFE IS FRANTIC
TO MAINTAIN THIS PERSON WHO
IS NOT REALLY YOU.
WHICH IS WHY SOME PEOPLE
LIVE UNDER A GREAT DEAL OF
STRESS.
WHEN THEY START TO FAIL IN
AN AREA IN THROUGH LIFE OR
SOMETHING STARTS TO FALL
APART, IT IS NOT JUST A HARD
TIME.
BUT THEIR WHOLE IDENTITY
CRUMBLES AROUND THEM, AND IT
BECOMES A REAL PAINFUL
CRISIS SEASON FOR THEM.
Gordon: WHY IS THAT?
IT SEEMS THAT EVEN GOES BACK
TO THE GARDEN OF EDEN, WHERE
WE BELIEVE THE LIE THAT WE
CAN BE LIKE GOD IF WE EAT
THE FORBIDDEN FRUIT.
I KNOW TODAY A LOT OF PEOPLE
SPEND A LOT OF TIME, WHETHER
IT IS I WANT TO HAVE SUCH
AND SUCH A JOB, OR BE SUCH
AND SUCH A PERSON, OR BE
POPULAR, OR WHATEVER IT IS.
WHY DO WE CONTINUE TO BUY
INTO THAT LIE?
WELL, IT'S VERY
POWERFUL.
I APPRECIATE YOU BRINGING IT
UP.
IN GENESIS 3, THE FIRST LIE
TOLD TO OUR PARENTS IS "YOU
CAN BECOME LIKE GOD."
GOD ALREADY TOLD THEM, I
MADE YOU IN MY IMAGE AND
LIKENESS.
IN THAT REGARD, WE'RE MADE
IN THE LIKENESS OF GOD.
WE DON'T NEED TO DO ANYTHING
TO BECOME LIKE GOD.
SO THE FIRST LIE IS YOUR
IDENTITY IS NOT GIVEN BY
GOD, BUT IT IS ACHIEVED BY
YOU.
YOU NEED TO DO SOMETHING.
AND SATAN COMES TO JESUS AND
TEMPTS HIM, AND JESUS
REMEMBERS AND RECALLS HIS
IDENTITY.
HE SAYS, YOU KNOW, IF YOU'LL
DO THIS AND DO THAT, AND
JESUS SAYS, WELL, THE BIBLE
SAYS DO NOT PUT THE LORD
YOUR GOD TO TEST.
SO THE REASON OUR FIRST
PARENTS FELL INTO SIN IS
THEY FORGOTTEN THEIR
IDENTITY.
THE REASON THAT JESUS WAS
ABLE TO RESIST TEMPTATION IS
BECAUSE HE REMEMBERED HIS
IDENTITY.
HE KNEW, EH?
WAS.
HE -- HE KNEW HE WAS, AND
WHEN YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE,
YOU KNOW WHAT TO DO.
Gordon: BUT WE TEPID
TEND INTO A AWARD ANALYSIS
WITH OUR HEAVENLY FATHER,
THAT IF WE BEHAVE IN A GOOD
WAY, WE'LL GET A BLESSING
FROM GOD.
AND IF WE BEHAVE IN A BAD
WAY, WE'RE GOING TO GET A
CURSE FROM GOD.
WE'RE STILL SORT OF STUCK IN
THAT LIE AS WELL.
WHAT IS YOUR RESPONSE TO
THAT?
WHERE I START THE BOOK, I
START WALKING THROUGH THE
BOOK OF EPHESIANS, WHERE
PAUL OUTLINES IN GREAT
DETAIL WHAT OUR IDENTITY IS
IN CHRIST.
AND HE USES THAT PHRASE SOME
30 TIMES.
HE STARTS BY SAYING WE'RE
SAINTS.
IF YOU ASK THE AVERAGE
CHRISTIAN, THEY DON'T SEE
THEMSELVES AS THEIR PRIMARY
IDENTITY AS SAINT.
PRIMARILY A SINNER, A
GUILTY, ROTTEN, VIAL SINNER,
AND GOD IS VERY UNHAPPY WITH
ME AND I NEE NEED TO DO
BETTER.
BUT YOUR A SAINT IN TERMS OF
CHRIST.
GOD DOESN'T SEE US WITH WHAT
WE'VE DONE, BUT WHAT CHRIST
HAS DONE.
SO THEN WE START TO LIVE
FROM OUR IDENTITY RATHER
THAN FOR OUR IDENTITY.
THAT ALLOWS US TO CHANGE AND
GROW AND HAVE HOPE AND
HELP.
IT DOESN'T MEAN WE'RE NOT
SINNERS, BUT GOD SEES US AS
HE'LL BE COMPLETED WITH US,
NOT WHERE HE STARTS WITH
US.
Gordon: IN YOUR BOOK,
YOU SAY THAT CHRISTIANS
SHOULD EXPECT TO SUFFER.
WHERE ARE YOU GOING WITH
THAT ONE?
WELL, I BELIEVE IF YOU
LOVE JESUS, YOU KNOW THAT
SATAN AND DEMONS DON'T LOVE
HIM, AND THERE ARE GOING TO
BE CERTAIN PEOPLE WHO DON'T
LOVE THEM.
AND SATAN, DEMONS, AND THOSE
PEOPLE ARE NOT GOING TO BE
VERY EXCITED ABOUT YOUR LOVE
FOR JESUS.
I WOULD SAY, QUITE FRANKLY,
THE CULTURE WE'RE IN IS
GROWING VERY QUICKLY, NOT
JUST POST-CHRISTIAN, BUT
ANTI-CHRISTIAN.
VERY HOSTILE TOWARDS
CHRISTIAN FAITH AND LOVED
FOR JESUS, WHERE CHRISTIANS
ARE BEING MOCKED FOR
CHRISTIAN BELIEFS.
I GET A LOT OF NEW
CHRISTIANS AND YOUNG PEOPLE
PASTORING A CHURCH IN A VERY
UNCHURCHED CITY, AND THE
TRUTH IS CHRISTIANS NEED TO
UNDERSTAND THAT TO WALK WITH
JESUS IS SOMETIMES TO SUFFER
LIKE JESUS DID.
Gordon: YOU ALSO, IN
THE LAST CHAPTER OF THE
BOOK, "I AM VICTORIOUS," YOU
REALLY GET INTO SOME REAL
KEYS AS TO HOW TO UNDERSTAND
SPIRITUAL WARFARE.
AND ONE OF THE FIRST KEYS IS
TO UNDERSTAND WE'RE IN IT.
WHY IS IT WE TEND TO NOT GO
THAT ROUTE, EVEN THOUGH
WE'RE IN THE MIDDLE OF
SUFFERING, EVEN THOUGH WE'RE
IN THE MIDDLE OF
PERSECUTION.
WE'RE NOT LOOKING AT IT AS A
SPIRITUAL BATTLE.
WE TEND TO LOOK AT IT AS
VERY TEMPERAL AND VERY
MATERIAL.
WHAT DO YOU SAY TO OPEN
THEIR EYES, THAT, YES, IT IS
SPIRITUAL, AND THERE ARE
SPIRITUAL FORCES.
IT IS VERY IMPORTANT, AND
PAUL USES THE LANGUAGE OF
BATTLE AND WAR AND THE
ENEMY, AND ALL OF THAT IS TO
BE TAKEN VERY, VERY
LITERALLY.
I THINK WHAT HAPPENED FOR
SOME CHRISTIANS, THEY THINK
I HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH
THE LORD, SO EVERYTHING GETS
INTERPRETED IN TERMS OF
WELL, IS IT ME OR IS IT THE
LORD?
SO IF THEY'RE SUFFERING OR
BEING ATTACKED OR OPPRESSED,
THEY THINK, WHAT IS THE LORD
DOING TO ME?
WHY DOES THE LORD NOT LOVE
ME?
WHY IS THE LORD HARMING ME?
THEY FORGET THAT THIRD
CATEGORY OF SATAN AND
DEMONS.
IF YOU FORGET THAT THIRD
CATEGORY OF SATAN AND
DEMONS, YOU'RE GOING TO
START TO WONDER IF GOD IS
GOOD AND LOVING.
THAT IS THE TACTIC OF THE
ENEMY, TO GET US TO THINK
THAT GOD IS THE ONE WHO IS
NOT GOOD AND THAT HE IS NOT
REALLY INVOLVED.
Gordon: WHY IS PRAYER
SO CRUCIAL TO REALLY
ESTABLISH OUR IDENTITY IN
CHRIST?
YEAH, WELL PRAYER FOR ME
IS ALL ABOUT GETTING TO KNOW
GOD AS FATHER.
I THINK SOME CHRISTIANS
STRUGGLE WITH PRAYER.
AND I THINK THE EASIEST WAY
TO GROW IN PRAYER IS TO DO
WHAT JESUS SAYS, WHICH IS TO
PRAY TO GOD AS FATHER.
ONCE WE KNOW THAT GOT IS A
FATHER WHO LOVES US, HE
ADORES US, HE FORGIVES US,
AND HE IS GENEROUS TO US,
WE'LL TALK TO HIM MORE
EASILY AND MORE NATURALLY.
I THINK THE EASY WAY TO GROW
IN PRAYER IS NOT TO FOCUS AS
MUCH IN PRAYER, BUT TO LOOK
AT KIDS WHO HAVE A DAD WHO
REALLY, REALLY LOVES THEM,
AND A DAD THEY REALLY LOVE
AND ENJOY, AND SEE THE
FREEDOM AND THE JOY AND THE
SIMPLICITY AND FREQUENCY
THAT THE KIDS GO TALK TO
THEIR DAD.
THAT'S THE BEST PICTURE OF
WHAT PRAYER LOOKS LIKE SINCE
GOD REALLY IS OUR FATHER.
A LOT OF PEOPLE DON'T HAVE A
DAD OR THEY HAVE A BAD DAD.
THE MAJORITY OF KIDS BORN TO
WOMEN UNDER 30 ARE BORN OUT
OF WEDLOCK, WITHOUT A
FATHER.
PARTICULARLY FOR YOUNGER
GENERATIONS, WHEN THEY HEAR
THAT GOD IS A DAD THAT
REALLY LOVES YOU AND HE
WANTS TO LISTEN TO YOU AND
HELP YOU AND HE IS THERE FOR
YOU, IT INVITES THEM TO A
LIFESTYLE OF PRAYER.
Gordon: MARK, THANKS
FOR THE BOOK, "WHO DO YOU
THINK YOU ARE?"
IT IS AVAILABLE NATIONWIDE.
IF YOU WOULD LIKE TO READ
MARK'S BOOK, "WHO DO YOU
THINK YOU ARE" IS AVAILABLE
WHEREVER BOOKS ARE SOLD.
THANKS FOR BEING WITH US,
MARK.
COOL.
THANK YOU.
Gordon: STILL AHEAD,
ONE COUPLE LEARNS IT IS NOT
WHAT YOU GET, BUT WHAT YOU
GIVE IN LIFE THAT MATTERS.
RIGHT AFTER THIS.
Gordon: FOR YEARS,
DANNY SMITH WORKED ON
COMMISSION AND STRUGGLED TO
PAY THE BILLS.
THEN ONE DAY HE FOUND THE
SOLUTION TO TO HIS MONEY
PROBLEMS WHILE HE WAS
WATCHING TV.
Reporter: DANNY SMITH
WAS ALWAYS WORRIED ABOUT
MONEY.
GROWING UP, WE DIDN'T
HAVE A LOT.
MY DAD LOST HIS JOB DURING
THE RECESSION IN THE '80s,
SO I ACTUALLY REMEMBER GOING
TO THE SAME CHURCH WE TAKE
MY DAUGHTER TO -- WE WOULD
GO THERE FOR THE FOOD
DRIVE.
I TOOK FROM MY EXPERIENCE AS
A KID THAT YOU NEED TO WORK
A LOT.
YOU NEED TO FIND A WAY TO
GET MORE MONEY.
Reporter: BUT NO MATTER
HOW HARD HE WORKED, IT
SEEMED AS THOUGH HE NEVER
MADE ENOUGH.
HE WOULD GO INTO
DEPRESSION.
HE WOULD COMPLETELY SHUT
DOWN.
AT FIRST I WAS, YOU KNOW,
WHAT'S WRONG?
HE WOULD SHUT OFF.
I REALIZED IT WAS THE
MONEY.
AND I STARTED SAYING, YOU
HAVE TO TRUST TO GOD IS
GOING TO TAKE CARE OF US.
AND HE ALWAYS DID.
Reporter: BOTH DANNY
AND JESSICA BECAME
CHRISTIANS AT A YOUNG AGE,
BUT DANNY NEVER LEARNED
ABOUT THE BIBLICAL
PRINCIPLES OF GIVING.
IT WAS JUST NONSENSE TO
ME TO THINK THAT YOU GIVE
YOUR MONEY AWAY.
IT WASN'T SOMETHING THAT I
WAS TAUGHT.
Reporter: JESSICA,
FAITHFUL VIEWER OF "THE 700
CLUB," KNEW SHE AND HER
HUSBAND NEEDED FINANCIAL
GUIDANCE, SO SHE ENCOURAGED
DANNY TO WATCH, TOO, AND
TOGETHER THEY LISTENED TO
GORDON ROBERTSON TEACH ABOUT
GIVING.
WHILE LISTENING TO GORDON
TEACH ON THE PRINCIPLES OF
GIVING, DANNY HAD A
REVELATION.
ONE OF THE BIGGEST THINGS
I HAD TO LEARN TO DO
PERSONALLY WAS GIVE UP,
RELINQUISH, CONTROL OVER MY
LIFE AND OVER EVERYTHING.
ONCE YOU DO THAT AND YOU DO
THAT 100%, A WEIGHT HAS BEEN
LIFTED OFF YOUR SHOULDER.
Reporter: NOT ONLY DID
DANNY GIVE ALL OF THEIR
FINANCIAL PROBLEMS OVER TO
THE LORD, HE AND JESSICA
BECAME "THE 700 CLUB"
PARTNERS.
AROUND THAT SAME TIME, THEY
TOOK ANOTHER STEP OF FAITH,
AND STARTED THEIR OWN
BUSINESS INSTALLING HOME
ENTERTAINMENT BUSINESSES.
THEY SAY GOD BLESSED THEIR
BUSINESS ALMOST
IMMEDIATELY.
AS WE STARTED TO MAKE A
LIVING, WE STARTED TO GIVE
MORE.
AND OUR BUSINESS STARTED TO
GROW WITH IT.
Reporter: WITHIN MONTHS
OF BECOMING CBN PARTNERS,
THEY INCREASED THEIR GIVING
FROM $20 A MONTH TO $100 A
WEEK.
FROM THERE WE REALLY SAW
OUR BUSINESS REALLY START TO
SNOWBALL AND PICK UP.
Reporter: LAST YEAR,
WHEN THE RECESSION HIT, HE
STARTED HAVING SECOND
THOUGHTS ABOUT GIVE.
I WAS GIVING EVERY WEEK,
AND THEN BUSINESS SLOWED
DOWN.
AND SO I DROPPED IT DOWN.
AND JESSICA ALMOST SLAPPED
ME UPSIDE THE HEAD, AND SAID
WHAT ARE YOU DOING?
YOU PROMISED THEM YOU
WOULD GIVE THIS MUCH.
THAT'S WRONG.
YOU NEED TO HONOR YOUR
COMMITMENT.
YOU NEED TO KEEP GIVING WHAT
YOU SAID YOU WOULD GIVE.
SHE WAS RIGHT.
AS I STARTED TO CONSISTENTLY
GIVE, THAT JOB THAT WAS
PENDING FOR THREE MONTHS HAD
CLOSED.
Reporter: AND AS THEY
REFLECT ON GOD'S GOODNESS,
THEY CREDIT THEIR SUCCESS TO
ONE THING.
I ATTRIBUTE IT TO GOD.
HE IS BEING FAITHFUL TO US
BECAUSE WE'RE BEING FAITHFUL
TO HIM.
Gordon: GIVE AND IT
WILL BE GIVEN UNTO YOU.
OUR NATURE SEEMS TO WANT TO
SAY WHEN I HAVE ENOUGH
MONEY, THEN I'LL GIVE.
BUT THAT'S NOT GOD'S WORD.
GOD'S WORD IS GIVE, AND IT
WILL BE GIVEN UNTO YOU.
AND IT WILL BE POURED INTO
YOUR LAP.
THE MEASURE YOU USE IS HOW
IT WILL BE MEASURED BACK TO
YOU.
IF YOU WANT TO START GIVING,
JUST GIVE US A CALL.
THE NUMBER IS ON THE SCREEN,
1-888-777-1999.
OR YOU CAN GO TO cbn.com
AND SAY, YES, I WANT TO JOIN
"THE 700 CLUB."
HOW MUCH IS IT?
JUST $20 A MONTH, 65 CENTS A
DAY.
WHEN YOU CALL AND JOIN, I
WANT YOU TO HAVE THIS.
IT IS LIF "LIFE BEYOND THE
GRAVE, PART TWO."
THEY ARE WONDERFUL STORIES,
EYE WITNESS ACCOUNTS OF
PEOPLE WHO HAVE DIED, GONE
TO HEAVEN, AND SOME WENT TO
HELL.
BUT THEY CAME BACK.
GOD BROUGHT THEM BACK TO
LIFE SO THAT THEY COULD
SHARE THEIR STORIES WITH
YOU.
IF YOU WANT THESE EYE
WITNESS ACCOUNTS, LIFE
BEYOND THE GRAVE, IT IS
YOURS WHEN YOU JOIN "THE 700
CLUB."
WHEN YOU CALL, ASK FOR
PLEDGE EXPRESS.
THE BANK DOES ALL OF THE
WORK.
AND YOU KNOW EVERY SINGLE
MONTH YOUR GIFT IS GOING TO
BE COMING IN.
WHEN YOU CALL, ASK FOR
PLEDGE EXPRESS.
1-888-777-1999.
THE NUMBER IS ON THE
SCREEN.
WELL, DIANA WAS A HAPPY
TEENAGER UNTIL HER BOYFRIEND
DUMPED HER.
SOON ENOUGH, I DROPPED
FROM A HEALTHY 120 POUNDS TO
110, AND THEN BELOW
100 POUNDS WITHIN MONTHS.
PRETTY UNANIMOUSLY, THERE
WAS A CAUSE FOR CONCERN
AMONG MY FRIENDS.
Gordon: HOWEVER, THAT
WAS JUST THE BEGINNING OF
HER PROBLEM.
SHE'LL SHARE HER STORY WHEN
WE RETURN.
Gordon: DIANA ANDERSON
WAS ONCE A HEALTHY HIGH
SCHOOL STUDENT.
SOON, THOUGH, SHE WAS LOSING
SLEEP, HER LOOKS, AND HER
MIND.
DIANA DIDN'T THINK THERE WAS
ANYTHING WRONG.
SHE JUST THOUGHT IT WAS THE
PRICE SHE HAD TO PAY TO BE
PERFECT.
Reporter: WHEN DIANA
ANDERSON STARTED HIGH
SCHOOL, SHE WAS A HEALTHY
ATHLETE.
SHE ALSO HAD A WONDERFUL
FAMILY, FRIENDS, AND A
CHURCH LIFE.
IN HER SENIOR YEAR, WHEN HER
LONG-TERM BOYFRIEND BROKE UP
WITH HER, THE PICTURE WASN'T
SO ROSY.
I DIDN'T HAVE THIS PERSON
THAT I HAD JUST GIVEN MY
HEART TO.
IT WAS EARTH-SHATTERING TO
ME AS AN 18-YEAR-OLD.
I REALLY TURNED TO FITNESS
AS A WAY TO CONTROL MY LIFE,
I THINK.
AND I REALLY TURNED TO FOOD
AND COUNTING CALORIES AND
COUNTING MY MINUTES ON THE
TREADMILL OR AT THE GYM AS A
WAY JUST TO GARNER STRENGTH
IN MY VIEW, BUT I WASN'T
TURNING TO GOD OR TO MY
FAMILY OR TO MY FRIENDS.
SOON ENOUGH, I DROPPED FROM
A HEALTHY 120 POUNDS, WHICH
FOR 5' 5" IS VERY HEALTHY,
TO 110, AND THEN 100 POUNDS
AND BELOW 100 POUNDS IN
MONTHS.
Reporter: AS DIANA'S
BODY DWINDLED AWAY, THE
CONCERNS OF HER FRIENDS AND
FAMILY GREW.
I DON'T THINK THE CHANGES
WITH DIANA WERE JUST
SUDDEN.
THEY WEREN'T OVERNIGHT, BUT
OVER TIME, SHE SEEMED TO
LOSE TO JOYFULNESS SHE HAD
ALWAYS HAD.
THERE BEGAN TO BE PHYSICAL
SYMPTOMS AS WELL AS A CHANGE
IN HER MOOD.
PRETTY UNANIMOUSLY THERE WAS
A CAUSE FOR CONCERN AMONG MY
FRIENDS.
I WAS SLEEPING INORDINATE
AMOUNTS.
I WAS GETTING 10 HOURS OF
SLEEP A NIGHT, AND FEELING
DROWSY IN SCHOOL AND
ACTIVITIES.
MY HAIR WAS THIN.
MY NAILS WERE REAL BRITTLE,
AND MY SKIN HAD THAT
YELLOWISH TINT TO IT, AND
SUNKEN EYES, AND ALL OF
THAT.
BUT TO ME IT WAS A NECESSARY
INCONVENIENCE TO BE THIN.
AND I WAS SO FEARFUL OF
GAINING WEIGHT IN ANY FORM
OR FASHION.
FOOD WAS MY GOD.
ABSOLUTELY WAS AN IDOL.
IT WAS ALL CONSUMING.
I THOUGHT ABOUT WHAT I'D
EATEN THAT DAY, IF I COULD
AFFORD MORE CALORIES.
IT WAS HORRIBLE.
AND I WAS IN SUCH BOND
BONDAGE.
Reporter: DIANA'S
PARENTS LOOKED TO A MYRIAD
OF MEDICAL SPECIALISTS FOR
AN ANSWER.
BECAUSE OF HER PHYSICAL
SYMPTOMS, WE THOUGHT THERE
HAD TO BE AN EXPLANATION.
IT STILL HADN'T DAWNED ON ME
IT COULD BE AN EATING
DISORDER.
Reporter: AS A LAST
RESORT, DIANA'S MOTHER
DECIDED TO RESEARCH ALL OF
HER SYMPTOMS ON LINE.
MY MOM -- ONE DAY I CAME
HOME FROM SCHOOL, AND SHE
WAS SITTING IN FRONT OF THE
COMPUTER.
HE ASKED ME TO SIT DOWN AND
LOOK AT WHAT WAS ON THE
MONITOR.
THERE WERE ALL OF THESE
SIGNS AND SYMPTOMS OF
ANOREXIA OF WHICH I HAD THEM
ALL.
I LOOKED AT THE LIST AND I
CRIED.
AND I LOOKED AT HER AND HE
LOOKED AT ME, AND WE BOTH
HAD THAT AGREEMENT.
THERE WAS NO LONGER AN
OPPORTUNITY FOR HER TO DENY
IT OR TO IGNORE IT.
AND SO WE BEGAN FROM THAT
POINT.
FROM THEN I JUST BEGAN TO
GO TO GOD AND TO PRAY AND
SAY I CAN'T DO THIS.
I'VE TRIED EVERYTHING TO
DENY IT FOR ALL OF THIS
TIME.
AND MY FRIENDS AND MY FAMILY
ARE CONCERNED.
I DON'T WANT TO BE ONE OF
THOSE STATISTICS OF GIRLS
WHO LET IT GO TOO FAR.
Reporter: DIANA BEGAN
LOOKING TO THE BIBLE AND
PRAYER IN ORDER TO RESHAPE
HER THINKING.
YOU HAVE TO, I THINK,
REALIZE THAT THE PHYSICAL
ROOT IS IN THE SPIRIT WORLD,
AND IN YOUR OWN RELATIONSHIP
WITH GOD.
AT THAT TIME, I HAD THE
BELIEF IN GOD.
I HAD BEEN GOING TO CHURCH
FOR YEARS, AND I KNEW GOD
CARED FOR ME, BUT I WASN'T
GIVING HIM MY BURDENS, AND I
WASN'T LOOKING TO HIM TO BE
MY SOURCE OF STRENGTH.
Reporter: AFTER A YEAR
OF STUDYING THE BIBLE AND
PRAYING ABOUT HER ANOREXIA,
DIANA WAS COMPLETELY
DELIVERED FROM HER EATING
DISORDER.
TODAY SHE IS BACK TO A
HEALTHY WEIGHT AND
NUTRITIOUS EATING HABITS.
SHE HAS EVEN WRITTEN A BOOK
CALLED "PRINCE UNIVERSITY,"
TO HELP PEOPLE AS THEY ARE
IN COLLEGE.
DO YOU NOT KNOW THAT YOUR
BODY IS THE TEMPLE OF THE
HOLY SPIRIT?
WE ARE TO HONOR GOD WITH OUR
BODIES IN ALL THAT WE DO.
I'M HEALED, I'M WITH THE
LORD, AND HE HAS GIVEN ME TO
GRACE.
I AM NOT BOUND TO FOOD.
I'M NOT BOUND TO MY BODY.
JUST TO KNOW THAT GOD CARES
ABOUT YOU SO MUCH.
HE SENT HIS SON TO DIE FOR
YOU, AND HE WANTS YOU TO BE
WELL.
HE WANTS TO YOU HAVE LIFE
AND HAVE IT ABUNDANTLY,
OVERFLOWING, TO THE FULL.
A BIG PART OF THAT IS YOUR
PHYSICAL LIFE, AND JESUS CAN
GIVE YOU THAT.
Gordon: FIND YOUR
IDENTITY IN HIM.
WHEN YOU UNDERSTAND THAT
YOU'RE FEARFULLY AND
WONDERFULLY MADE, WHEN YOU
UNDERSTAND THAT HE LOVES YOU
UNCONDITIONALLY, NOT BASED
ON WHAT YOU DO OR WHAT YOU
HAVEN'T DONE.
IT'S BASED ON HIS LOVE FOR
YOU AND WHO YOU ARE.
YOU ARE HIS CHILD.
HE FORMED YOU.
HE MADE YOU.
HE KNOWS EVERYTHING ABOUT
YOU.
AND ALL HE WANTS IS TO GIVE
YOU HIS UNCONDITIONAL LOVE.
AND FOR YOU TO BE ABLE TO
RECEIVE THAT.
START THINKING ABOUT WHAT
GOD'S DREAM WAS FOR US.
GOD WANTED US TO LIVE WITH
HIM IN A GARDEN.
WHERE HE WOULD COME DOWN IN
THE COOL OF THE EVENING AND
TALK WITH US.
AND ALL HE ASKED US TO DO
WAS GO AROUND AND APPRECIATE
THINGS.
GIVE NAMES TO THINGS.
THAT'S ALL HE WANTED US TO
DO.
AND WE MESSED IT UP.
WE STARTED OUR OWN THING.
AND THEN WE ATE OF THE
FORBIDDEN TREE AND WE GOT
THE KNOWLEDGE OF GOOD AND
EVIL.
AND EVER SINCE WE'VE BEEN
JUDGING.
WE'VE BEEN JUDGING OURSELVES
ESPECIALLY.
AND JUST LIKE DIANA, IF
YOU'RE LOOKING IN THE MIRROR
AND SAY, OKAY, I NEED TO
FIND PERFECTION HERE, IF YOU
COME AT IT WITH A
JUDGEMENTAL SPIRIT, YOU'LL
FIND PLENTY OF
IMPERFECTIONS, AND WUL START
CONDEMNING YOURSELF.
AND THEN YOU'LL START
WORKING ON HOW CAN I MAKE IT
BETTER?
HOW CAN I EXERCISE MORE?
HOW CAN I EAT LESS?
AND SUDDENLY FOOD BECOMES A
GOD.
YOU CAN TRUST GOD WITH
EVERYTHING.
YOU CAN TRUST HIM WERE YOU
WITH YOUR WEIGHT.
YOU CAN TRUST HIM WITH YOUR
EMOTIONS.
YOU CAN TRUST HIM WITH YOUR
SELF-IMAGE.
AND THE MORE YOU SPEND TIME
WITH HIM, AND THE MORE YOU
UNDERSTAND HIS UNCONDITIONAL
LOVE, THEN ALL OF THAT
STRIVING GOES AWAY, AND YOUR
CONSCIOUS GENS CLEANSED FROM
DEAD WORKS -- BECAUSE ALL
WORKS OF THE FLESH ARE
DEAD -- SO THAT YOU CAN CAN
SERVE THE LIVING GOD.
IF YOU WANT SOMEONE TO PRAY
WITH YOU, AND IF YOU'VE GOT
THINGS ON YOU THAT YOU'RE
WONDERING WHY AM I JUDGING
MYSELF?
IS THERE SOMETHING THAT HAS
HAPPENED TO YOU?
DID SOMEBODY DO SOMETHING TO
YOU?
DO YOU NEED TO FORGIVE THEM
AND SET THEM FREE?
OR ARE THERE THINGS THAT
YOU'VE DONE, WHERE YOU NEED
TO FORGIVE YOURSELF AND
RECEIVE THE FORGIVENESS THAT
GOD HAS FOR YOU?
WE'RE HERE FOR YOU.
WE'RE HERE FOR YOU 24 HOURS
A DAY.
IT'S A TOLL-FREE CALL.
THE MINISTRY IS ALWAYS
FREE.
JUST CALL US.
1-888-777-1999.
JUST TELL SOMEBODY WHAT'S ON
YOUR HEART.
IF YOU CO CONFESS YOUR
SINS, HE WILL BE FAITHFUL
AND JUST TO FORGIVE YOU AND
CLEANSE YOU FROM ALL
UNRIGHTEOUSNESS.
MAKE THAT CALL,
1-888-777-1999.
WELL, THIS IS "700 CLUB
INTERACTIVE",WHERE WE GET TO
INTERACT WITH YOU ON TODAY'S
TOPICS.
SO LET'S GO TO MARGUERITE IN
THE CHATROOM.
GORDON, THIS IS FROM
CATER, WHEN I WAS YOUNGER, A
MISSIONARY PROPHESIED OF ME
THAT I WOULD BE A
MISSIONARY, TOO.
10 YEARS LATER, I'M A
WRITER.
I'VE ALWAYS REMEMBERED THAT
PROPHECY, BUT NEVER TRULY
FELT IT WAS FOR ME.
IS IT POSSIBLE THAT THE
PROPHECY WAS WRONG OR AM I
NOT DOING WHAT GOD HAS
CALLED ME TO DO?"
Gordon: THERE IS A LOT
OF WAYS TO JUDGE PROPHECY.
LET ME ASSURE YOU AS A
WRITER, YOU CAN BE A
MISSIONARY, TOO.
SOME OF THE GREATEST THINGS
THE APOSTLE PAUL HAS DONE,
AND HE IS CERTAINLY ONE OF
THE GREATEST MISSIONARIES.
BUT HIS GREATEST MISSIONARY
WORK HAPPENED FROM A PRISON
CELL BECAUSE HE WAS THEN
FORCED TO WRITE LETTERS.
AND HE WROTE LETTERS TO THE
CHURCHES HE HAD STARTED
BECAUSE HE WASN'T ABLE TO GO
TO SEE THEM PERSONALLY.
I, FOR ONE, AM GREAT FOR
GRATEFULFGRATEFUL FOR THAT
BECAUSE NOW WE HAVE A RECORD
OF THAT.
YOU DON'T HAVE TO PHYSICALLY
GO LIVE WITH A TROUBLE GROUP
TO BE A MISSIONARY.
YOU CAN BE A MISSIONARY FROM
YOUR WORDS, AND YOUR WORDS
CAN BE VERY EFFECTIVE.
NOW, ON PERSONAL PROPHECY,
IF AT THE TIME IT DIDN'T
AGREE WITH YOUR SPIRIT, THE
BIBLE SAYS LET THE PROPHETS
PROPHESY AND THE OTHERS
JUDGE.
AND WHO ARE THE OTHERS?
ALL WORDS FROM GOD ARE
CONFIRMED BY TWO OR THREE
WITNESSES.
SO IF THE WORD OVER YOU HAD
A CHECK -- YOU HAD A CHECK
OVER IT, I WOULD TAKE IT TO
YOUR PASTOR.
I WISH YOU HAD DONE IT 10
YEARS AGO.
TAKE IT TO YOUR PASTOR.
WHERE IS THE CONFIRMATION?
PROPHETS NEED TO BE UNDER
THE AUTHORITY OF THE
APOSTLES, AND UNDER THE
AUTHORITY, CERTAINLY, OF THE
SHEPHERDS OF THE FLOCK.
SO GET THAT WORD JUDGED.
IF IT COMES UP THAT YOU'RE
NOT GETTING ANY
CONFIRMATION, EITHER FROM
YOUR OWN SPIRIT, BECAUSE
USUALLY PROPHECY IS A
CONFIRMATION OF WHAT GOD HAS
ALREADY TOLD YOU.
AND IF YOU CAN'T FIND TWO OR
THREE WITNESSES, THEN GET
RID OF IT, AND HOLD FAST TO
WHAT IS GOOD AND LET THE
OTHER GO.
WE LEAVE YOU WITH THESE
WORDS FROM EPHESIANS: "FOR
WE AS A WORKMANSHIP, CREATED
IN CHRIST JESUS, CREATED FOR
GOOD WORKS, WHICH GOD